i formatted a spare drive and isntalled ubuntu- then installed my stuff

here are osx , freebsd and ubuntu (debian )

all numbers are from ps aux , and list ( in this order )
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OSX FreeBSD Ubuntu
Parent 80552 30796 55148 51736 41252 33420
Child 76560 296 55412 51956 41252 31060



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OSX FreeBSD Ubuntu
Child 76560 16960 55412 52070 41384 32340